17/02/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 17/02/2014Categories Adopting an older child Family HistoryOur first day out alone with Jah.We were camping in the garden of Jah’s short-term foster parents, so that we could get to know each other better before he moved in to […]
10/02/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 10/02/2014Categories Adopting an older child Adoption procedures 1970- - our experience Family History“Getting to know you” – before Jah moves in.So far Jah had made one visit to our house and met all the family. The next time he would be moving in as the little […]
23/01/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 23/01/2014Categories Adopting an older child Adoption procedures 1970- - our experience Family History‘Little brother’ visits our home – a preliminary visit. Sam asks “Do you like peas?” Sam chatted happily to Jah in the back seat as D. drove them home. Jah was making his first visit to our home. If all […]
20/01/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 20/01/2014Categories Adopting an older child Adoption procedures 1970- - our experience Family HistoryPreparing for the visit by Jah and his foster family. Necessary steps to be taken in adopting an older child.When I was writing the Memoir a couple of years ago about adopting our children in the 1970s and 1980s, somebody asked me “How would your […]
13/01/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 13/01/2014Categories Adopting an older child Adoption procedures 1970- - our experienceSeeing our new ‘little brother’ for the first time. He points “There’s a rock for Jah!”It was springtime 1980. Once we had agreed to see Jah, the little boy who might come to complete our family, Pat his social worker sprang […]
04/01/2014Published by Odette Elliott at 04/01/2014Categories Adopting an older child Adoption procedures 1970- - our experienceReflections. The family story continued. “We have heard of a little boy who is longing for a ‘forever family’ “.In September 1979 we were approved as would-be adopters for an older child. I needed a job that I could do with a child-in-tow, so I […]
27/11/2013Published by Odette Elliott at 27/11/2013Categories Adopting an older child Family HistoryApplying to adopt a little brother. Sam says “the same colour as me”.By the time Sam was six, we realised that the years had flown by and we had failed in one aspect of our family plan. We […]